Therapy with Infants: Treating a Traumatised Child, by Inger Thormann and Inger Poulsen

Everything That is Left Unsaid Ties up Energy


Therapy with Infants outlines a form of psychotherapy aimed at infants and young children who have experienced traumatic events before the age of three. With inspiration from French therapists, the specific method was developed by the book’s authors, Inger Thormann and Inger Poulsen, who discuss here the origins and key themes of the work. Both are experienced therapists who have practiced in private and public settings for more than twenty years.

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The Oedipus Complex: Solutions or Resolutions?, by Rhona M. Fear

How our attachment experiences determine our response to unresolved oedipal issues

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I always think it is fascinating to discover what makes a particular author write about a particular subject, whether that individual has a predilection for fiction or non-fiction. It is all a part of one’s central curiosity as a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, I dare say, to want to discover “what makes an individual tick”.  We analysts function in many ways rather like detectives – detectives with empathy (hopefully)!  And so you may wonder what led me to write a book about the Oedipus complex, and its relationship with attachment theory.  So I will tell you the story.

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Love and Therapy: In Relationship, by Divine Charura and Stephen Paul

You are Good Enough


In modern culture love  has a  prominent position.  Television dramas, songs and novels as well as popular magazines all focus on love in its many forms. Is love the answer to suffering?  Sigmund Freud noted the importance of love in the healing of the human psyche and his concerns around the erotic nature of love distanced this  relationship with his patients.

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Militarizing Minds: Media Violence and the Military, by Lt. Col. Dave Grossman

We’re teaching our kids not how to Remember, but how to Kill



Why should we study killing? One might just as readily ask, Why study sex? The two questions have much in common. Every society has a blind spot, an area into which it has great difficulty looking. Today that blind spot is killing. A century ago it was sex.

Part of the reason for our lack of knowledge in this area is that combat is, like sex, laden with a baggage of expectations and myths. In the same way that we did not understand what was occurring in the bedroom, we have not understood what was occurring on the battlefield. Our ignorance of the destructive act matched that of the procreative act.

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